Checking Off Boxes

During the period of time leading up to my separation I talked to so many friends.  When your relationship is in crisis many of us feel the need to compare notes.  Should it really be this hard?  Am I going through a “rough patch” or is this something more? In the end, I realized nobody…

Big Leaps

I’ve been reticent to write about some of the leaps that have happened this year.  Well, one in particular, but it’s almost the one year anniversary so I can’t pretend it isn’t real.  Just the other day was the one year anniversary of when things started going really wrong. The real anniversary isn’t until just…